We are a relationship-based coaching
and consulting practice

Committed to helping individuals and couples evolve and to inspire the change they want”. Together, we reach the goal. We work well with both mixed culture or same culture relationships. We thoroughly understand the nuances and dynamics of each. 

At Couples Evolution, we approach our services with First Principle thinking by first identifying the real root of the relational problem (both hidden and obvious ones). This for us is a critical first step and as Albert Einstein said: “If I had an hour to solve a problem, I'd spend 55 minutes thinking about the problem and 5 minutes thinking about solutions.” ... Einstein knew that problems are full of clues to their own successful solution and so do we. The next step is we break down the problem(s) into their fundamental parts from the roots(genesis) to the trunk to the branches and then the leaves (details of problem expression). The third step is we create new solutions through customised pathways and variety of tools.

Basic Foundational Models

We may not immediately change the problem, but we would help you change the way you look at the problem and when this happens, the problem changes and releases insight for lasting solutions.

We employ basic foundational models from the get-go ground up with no pre-assumptions to establish a solid ground on which our knowledge of the problem can be built up from and raised to greater comprehension. Just like the biblical admonition to build a house upon the rock found in Matthew 7:24-27 NIV

The Wise and Foolish Builders

We believe every strong and lasting relationship should be built on solid foundations. Just like the biblical admonition to build a house upon the rock found in Matthew 7:24-27 NIV

24 “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. 26 But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. 27 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”

First principles withstand the storms of misunderstanding because they are premised on solid foundation just like a rock.

Graduate from a position of power struggle to that of power couple!

Marriage and relationship coaching is both a science and an art which is most effective when both parties are committed to the desired outcome. Maybe you’re currently single and looking for the right partner or a newlywed couple tasting the bitter flavour of hurtful conflict or emotional hardship for the first time. Maybe you’ve been married for a few or many years and are struggling with difficult circumstances and trends that won’t go away like infidelity, betrayal, lack of respect or lack of love or meddling -in -laws. Or maybe you woke up one day to find that your once soul mate has now become a role mate. Every relationship story is unique and so is the solution.

Regardless of what the issues are, be it a despair about your marriage and desperation for change or only just uncomfortable enough to seek self-help or looking to discover new ways to spice up your relationship, Couples Evolution with Bunmi and Temi has something for you.

Let’s show you the way forward to reconnecting with your partner in sequential steps. From building radical honesty to assertive and eloquent listening skills in communication, to negotiations out of conflicts, to establishing rituals, we’ll help you build a time and joy rich relationship that would last the distance.